Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Fostering moral courage

Decades back when I was a young boy studying in class 6, there was a heavily built bully in the class. Being the son of the class teacher he ran amuck doing things that pleased him with none bold enough to question him or complain against him. He stole lunch boxes and took away from  school bags of others whatever he desired. He beat the weak boys and frequently pushed a polio affected boy without any provocation. The poor teacher was not aware of the misdeeds of this bully as none informed him.
 It was a hot summer. There was a big earthen pot kept in the corner of the class room. The water boy filled the pot with water each morning before the classes commenced. There was a brass tumbler kept by the side of the pot. The boys slaked their thirst in between the two classes. It so happened one day the bully commanded one boy to fetch him the water in the tumbler. The boy strangely ignored him and after drinking the water returned to his seat.
 The bully roared” how dare you disobey me? If you do not get me water within the next minute, I will make you pay for it.”
 The boy did not budge. All the other boys watched anxiously suppressing their glee at his defiance. The bully got up in anger and thrashed the boy. He took the black board wiper and hit the pot breaking it into pieces with all the water spilling out. It was a little later the class teacher entered and saw the damage. He took the cane in his hand and asked generally who broke the pot. There was a deafening silence.
The bully stood up and said pointing out the boy who refused to give him the water”Sir,he broke  the pot in anger as others were drinking water and he did not get the tumbler when he wanted.”
The good teacher unusually lost his temper  and beat the boy once when there was a sudden shriek “Stop it, Sir”.
 Everyone turned towards the direction of the voice. It was the polio affected boy who stood up.and said “Sir, the pot was broken by your son in anger as that boy refused to bring him water when commanded by your son. He thrashed the boy mercilessly and pushed him down. He is tormenting us daily in several ways.”
The teacher looked at the class and asked the boys “Is it true? You do not have to fear him or me. Please raise your hands if what the boy said is true.”
All the boys,except the bully and a couple of his buddies raised their hands,, and shouted”Yes, sir” in chorus
The teacher full of remorse for his rash behavior rubbed softly the arm of the boy and said “I was rash and should have asked others. I am sorry. Please go to your seat and sit down.”
He called the polio affected boy to his side and affectionately put his arm around him and said “I really appreciate your boldly speaking out the truth. I do not know why all the others did not have the courage you showed.. I am thankful to you and proud of you as my student.
 He called his son near him and caned him thrice telling that he was ashamed of his despicable behavior.
The point of this story is that most of us lack the moral courage to stand up against injustice wherever we see. While the soldiers who fight the war, the firemen who fight the raging fires and the policemen controlling a violent mob are all courageous in the course of their duty, ordinary people remain mute witnesses to the atrocities out of fear. The daring few whistle blowers pay a heavy price for their courage in this unethical system.
 While individually we cannot fight the corrupt politicians, the greedy mafia, the defrauding traders, we should collectively raise our voice of protest at the appropriate times. I have read that ‘moral courage is not just an intellectual exercise. Having the strength to do what is right when faced with difficult decisions is the key to being an ethical leader.”
If the ration shop or a petrol bunk deals with adulterated goods, we must have the courage to appeal to the consumer protection organization. If the auto driver fleeces you, you must stand up for your right and take a public bus than succumb to his unreasonable demand. It is difficult and inconvenient no doubt but we must at some stage learn lessons from great leaders like Mahatma Gandhi or a Nelson Mandela. The latter had said that "I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear."
We should teach our children by personal example in the ordinary daily transactions about the values of integrity and moral character. Even in the sphere of games, how many players have the willingness to walk without waiting for the umpire’s ruling when they know they are out? We must develop the strength to stand up for what we believe. Our actions should be based on our ethical values and willingness to undergo hardships and even face some risks. We should not be willing accessories to manipulative bosses in office, cunning politicians during elections and corrupt bureaucrats in our dealings.

 It is high time that schools set apart an hour for moral instruction to children even from the small classes to build a nation of high moral fibre.


  1. So true.. with my internet connection a new db box had to be installed near my house which will cover the whole nagar.. but the local ward member is demanding such huge amounts wit the top communication co n they r not able to fix it despite taking up wit city corporation .. n the co is giving me this reason.. helpless me..

  2. Really good KP. Moral fibre makes us the person we are..
    In school we had a class devoted to moral science, which then I never thought of much, but today when I look back, am ever so thankful to values it has ingrained in me.

    Really sad if schools have discontinued such classes

  3. Well said ..These basic values must come to the children from the parents.Problem is the system which has been corrupted by those in power ..Unless,we get up,and tell our children of good and bad and give them the values of life ,no change can take place.
    Lets start with ourselves first

  4. Sir, good story. We teach our mother tongue, Telugu to kids in the city where we live. We make sure that in every class we tell them one good behavioral point and a moral story. Parents are glad to observe the kids following and implementing those points. Kids like the stories too.

  5. Nice story,beautifully explained,very nice

  6. A fine piece of writing, as usual! One must never allow his dignity to get assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked...I was one of the softer targets in school...and today I regret why I didn't have the strength to raise my voice.
    Loved this, Parthasarthy!

  7. The story made an interesting read.Fearlessness is one quality that I admire in speech and action.I have cultivated it but some times it really bounces back on the face :-)

  8. very good should be followed by adults as well as youngsters..we use ethics at our own convenience..

  9. A beautiful post about the importance of speaking out and being brave. This sort of attitude should be cultivated from small and that's something that I try to do for my kids as well. Cheers!

  10. Blessings....
    Understanding this well it brought tears to my eyes. There is a heavy price for telling and living truth, often it means walking alone. Its a sad state of how things can be when others refuse to speak truth to what they witness and will often choose to protect their selves. Yet we are surprise who some choose lies over truth when lies seems to be rewarded and truth punished.

    Thanks for sharing.